As with other empathetic signs they tune into a partner and to a degree they adjust themselves accordingly.
This is a man who will expect to give and receive 100%, and he has a personal skill set ideally suited to making sure that happens.
All things being equal though, Scorpio men are amongst the more kinky, yes.
It's important to note though that this is largely because they shrug off things which might embarrass other signs, and not because they're necessarily kinky themselves.
Most Scorpios prefer a good fight with a partner in preference to being ignored.